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Saturday, March 30, 2013

Child Physology_My Observation on Theories for Special Needs Children.


DEMOGRPHIC DETAILS
Joy Jaazaniah, a girl starts out as a happy and healthy baby. She is the eldest of 3 siblings. She is 12 years old now. Normal development like any other child grows. Then, around 6-18 months of life something goes terrible wrong. She loses the ability to speak, she can’t use her hands to play with toys or even feed herself and she may lose the availability to walk. Our local hospital unable to diagnosed. Some doctor say could be Autistic, Cerebral palsy or any rare diseases. We are unable to comprehend with speculations. Her parents did final attempt, blood sample taken; send to Japan to find out what is wrong with her. After several months we found out that she is diagnosed with Rett Syndrome.
Have you heard of “Rett Syndrome” I haven’t until my niece Joy Jaazaniah diagnosed with it. What is Rett Syndrome? Through my assessment I will share how my niece and rest of the girls diagnosed with Rett Syndrome nature, and appearance of this syndrome had impacted physical, cognitive progress and socio emotional by collaborating the two theories.

OBSERVATION SETTINGS

My observation carried out in various situations from the day she was born till today. On a closer observation, a difference is seen from normal child growing and special child like my niece. Rapidly observed during crucial time when I took Child Physiology course. Rett Syndrome is a genetic neurological disorder that affects girls between 6 – 18 months of age. The regression decease leads to a lifelong handicap. My first observation was her floppy legs movements indicate difficulty with balance and coordination. She started too walked on her toes unlike other children. She is unable to express her feel of excitement, anger, sadness or pain. She unable to articulated or says any single words as she grows. Even thought when she was 12 months “Tertiary Circular Reaction” she is able to say first recognizable words. Shaking different toys to hear sounds and searches for object that have been concealed. After diagnosed gradually she had severe communication impairments. She communicates with me through her smiles, facial expression and eye contact. I spend most of my time talking to her, reading spiritual book and children books.

DEVELOPMENT MILESTONES

COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT

Rett Syndrome is a disorder of the nervous systems, caused by mutation on the MECP2 gene location on the X Chromosome, that leads to development reversals. Joy is unable to demonstrate her intellectual abilities. She cannot verbally communicate; she is able to point to something, understand our conversation, questions and she communicate to us through her beautiful eyes. Non verbal communicators like me required to be attentive to gesture, facial expression, body language, even the look in someone eyes. This will build her confident and feel secure. Her intelligence is difficult to measure due to her motor difficulties and lack of speech. To stimulate her cognitive development we begin with pre-literacy skills exposure and repetition. I make a point spending time reading books, play and watch cartoons with her.  Learning is a good for the brain, no matter what the neurological challenges may be. I also use flash cards for her to know and see her surroundings. She expresses herself when she is hungry and discomfort by crying or make noise. As she able to point to something, I experiment Object Permanence falls under Piaget Stages of Cognitive Development “Sensorimotor”:  4 – 8 Secondary Circular Reactions. Same method hid a toy under a blanket, while she was watching and observing whether or not she search the hidden toy. After several attempt of me demonstrating, I was happy to see she is trying her best to reach out her hand to move the blanket.

PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT

Children diagnosed with Rett Syndrome tent to display both poor gross and fine motor skills. A child’s motor ability with Rett Syndrome can be significantly impacted by motor Apraxia and Ataxia. Motor apraxia is inability of the body to perform a movement when prompted by the brain. Ataxia, means without order or in coordination. The combination of motor apraxia and ataxia clearly negatively affect the child’s ability to perform many gross skills used in general physical education and other movement settings.

Gross Motor Development
We notice regression on Joy Gross Motor Skill when she was between 12 – 18 months. Her physical Development Milestones regressed instead following the benchmark of any normal child milestone development. She is unable to perform locomotors skills such as hopping, jumping, throwing balls, kicking and catch things. Diagnosed with Rett Syndrome is prone to have a Hypotonia. Lack of muscle tone and therefore may require support from adult. She typically remains standing still with support while watching others performs activities. It will take great amount of strength and co ordination to perform activities. Base on Piaget’s Stage of Cognitive Development, should be “Concrete Operational” stage, however with this diagnosed motor movements can be difficult. Muscles weaknesses, rigidity or stiffness, dystonia is increased muscles tone with abnormal posturing of extremity and scoliosis is curvatures of the spine are other prominent features decline her to move. She needs wheelchair to move around with the support of adult.

Fine Motor Development
Loss of purposeful hand movements; the grasp used to pick up small objects is repetitive hand motions like wringing or constant placement of hands in mouth also clasped behind the back or held at the sides. Even thought she was able to feed herself a cracker or, passing an object from one hand to another and pick up a tiny object unfortunately she can’t do any more as days goes by.  She wants to move and perform the task, but seems to be unable to tell the body to do. Her floppy arms and legs are the result of neurological problem rather than lack of exercise. Lately I bought a dog “Shih Tzu”. Upon my observation I notice her eye contact constantly looking at the dog and smiling. I took my dog place on her lap. She slowing left her hand and strokes the dog with a smile. It is really a great achievement for me.

COMMUNICATION AND LANGUAGE DEVELOPMENTAL MILESTONE

Neurological problems like Rett Syndrome affect the muscles needed for speaking. Without ability to communicate through speech or hand movement she unable to express her needs and wants. Her non verbal communication is more on facial expression and body language. She understands basic sound of native language but she unable to response. She expresses herself by making sound and through her eye contact as well crying when discomfort.

SOCIO-EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENAL MILESTONES

Many children with Rett Syndrome go through a period of social withdrawal as part of their regression period. While growing up she cries frequently, avoid eye contact; she don’t like to go out in public like shopping mall and restaurants. Noise often irritates her. She shows no interest in surrounding. She preferred to be alone at home and play with her fingers.  Social interactions are challenging for children with Rett Syndrome at all stages. At the age for two she started to lose grip associating with her peers and isolated herself by playing alone. Music also has been found to be an affective motivation tool. I bought some nice soft music to stimulate her mind; motivating tool that increase social engagement and receive positive response from her. Sociocultural Theory : Lev Vygotsky “Zone of Proximal development and Scaffolding” applies in my family and I confronted as face challenges every day. However, we often find ways to overcome challenges to create positive environment and learning tools to help her. Meeting her unique behavioral by supporting creative positive social skills. Creating opportunities for social interaction and exposing her to the surrounding. Keep motivating her and give her hugs of love each time she manage to adapt to the environment.

She needs a lot of “Scaffolding” support in Medical Concern. She is prominent to seizures. In additional to seizure, child with Rett Syndrome often have Gastroesophageal reflux, constipation, scoliosis and abnormal breathing and poor circulation. All these potential medical issues can cause delays in the motor domain. She need constant observation, care and support to go through daily life this in world.

THEORIES

Cognitive-Development Theory JEAN PIAGET
Relating his theory on Rett Syndrome child on Piaget stages of cognitive development apply differently compare to normal child. Joy relates more on Sensorimotor Substages. Rett Syndrome is a disorder of the nervous systems (Neurological Disorder) that leads to developmental reversals. Hypotonia, loss of transitional movements, excessive saliva and drooling, floppy arms, legs and showing head growth beginning at approximately 5 – 6 months of age. Believing nature and nurture interact to yield cognitive development for special child like Joy. It is easy to relate Piaget theory for normal children, how are we going to relate to special children diagnosed not only to Rett Syndrome also Autistic, Dyslexia, ADHA and many more. Special need children are significantly requires intensive accommodations and special learning approach as well environment to suit their needs. How can we excel Piaget theories Sensorimotor, Preoperational, Concrete Operational and Formal Operational to our special need children?  It is something for me to brain storm, designed for our potential special needs children.

Sociocultural Theory: LEV VYGOTSKY

Vygotsky has developed a socio-cultural approach to cognitive development.Vygotsky (1978) sees the Zone of Proximal Development as the area where the most sensitive instruction or guidance should be given - allowing the child to develop skills they will then use on their own - developing higher mental functions. Vygotsky also views interaction with peers as an effective way of developing skills and strategies. He suggests that teachers use cooperative learning exercises where less competent children develop with help from more skillful peers - within the zone of proximal development. “Scaffolding” support help child to enhance skills to leave independence. Special Children need a lot of support to accomplish certain tasks. As a caregiver we need to be aware of their capabilities and motor challenges of a child. She can easily become frustrated or disinterested with an activity that challenging. Finding out what motivates the child enables the child to stay more focuses on the task. When we are assisting a child we also need to be sensitive on their movement, any pain sensation any reaction for improvement. It is also good the keep tract on child milestones. How long does a child need our support. We being with simplest form of an activities or skill help the child process the task and have a success before we moving on to a more complex skill.

Saturday, October 6, 2012

Journey of a Broken Angel


The moment she made up her mind that she is going with determination to meet him, she did not think twice and she was eager for this divine meeting. She just couldn’t find the right words to describe the joy. I am sure every one of us have gone through experiences which we are not able to explain - sudden sense of loneliness, broken friendship, new relationship, new friendship, most of the time things we learn in school and life application is contrary to what we see or to what we do. “Take chances in life without thinking twice or even regretting it” – says the word on a well-known magazine. She took the chance with power and authority to take risks and make that decision while not even knowing his real characteristic, personality and habits. The most fundamental is the conversation both had was beautiful and truthful to each other.

The day finally came, both full with enthusiasm, optimism and above all with affection they meet. She just thank God that no criticism or resentment was between them. He introduced her to all his close friends. Show his
real lifestyle as well his social interaction. Both traveled round cities, had meals, free from daily routine with no sudden changes in conservative thinking and tradition. Day passes by so quickly, both seem yet to know each other. Everything was beautiful till one juncture both deliberately spoke their mind. That led to conflicts and arguments. In a split second she realized she already lost him. Nothing could bring back whatever was built during their time together. The mistake she did crippled her dreams as well as his expectation.

Sometime when we touch, the honesty is too much. It’s so difficult to reason and accept the same as we had built our bridge from the beginning. This is how world works I
guess. The day approached  for her to depart. It is the saddest moment’s to say good bye without forgiving each other completely before God. She looked at him with emotions, not holding a grudge. Diplomatically both provide explanations agreed with facts rather than sentiment. She pulls herself through and puts on a strong front, withholding her tears not wanting him to see. Saying good bye is not an easy thing in this journey. The bridge they were building was hit by a storm.


After 1 month waiting………..

With great expectation of signs and wonders to take place after departing, her heart pounding for things consign beyond her imagination. She waits for him to response still no sound of him even a small beep. She was very disappointed and lived with misery. She blamed herself for being so reserved - why did she hold on to her principles and tradition? At times things around us happen so fast we hurt the other party unknowingly.

Damage done and words said is built in his heart like a memory chip that cannot be erased. She prayed for forgiveness from God, as well as for him to accept her again. She just couldn’t stop her tears. She is wounded by him. She speaks of him fondly to all her friends and fellow colleagues but there is fear in her that she will lose him forever.

What happened to this friendship, what damage did she do, why was he reacting this way? Is it difficult to forgive someone in this century? We smiled today and tomorrow we filled our heart with hatred not wanting to see, speak or even a phone call. She did not want to give up on him easily. She knows deep within the darkest hidden heart he still misses her. She continued to pray for his safety, health and so on. Till today she misses him so much. She couldn’t tell him how much she miss him because he refused to pick up her call. It’s sad most of the time people behave in such a manner. Life is too short to wake up and regret. She wants faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. She waits on him hoping that someday he will come. Cause the greatest of all is love. Love endures forever.



After 6 months waiting………

Waiting is not an easy thing for her or even to anyone.  We just want to rush to things and get over with it.  She was miserable waiting for him to respond even though the future with him is uncertain.  Not wanting to give up easily so she pursues him. She understands a man like him with pride and dignity will find it difficult to change his stand, especially with his current status and glamorous lifestyle. On the other hand she is simple, compassionate and her pride is only Jesus.

She took this chance with courage, determination and by faith of course. She even shut the door of her friends who wants to get to know him. 

He is definitely not an easy person, arrogant and settled in his ways. Nevertheless her heart search for him. She makes a final attempt and a agreement with God. She will go the extra mile to save the relationship, if it fails; let God’s will to be done on earth as it is in heaven. People call it a gamble but to her at the end of the day her future is in Jesus hand.

People will be thinking that it is pointless to go all out for this guy. All she can say is, the day she laid her cards before God, she has faith God will not keep silent. He will work mysteriously for her. I still remember the day she prayed for a life partner. The same year he called and spoke to her. Both met on 26th March 2010. I believe her prayers are overflowing jars in heaven till now.  She set the deadline till Dec 2010. Time passes so quickly.  Today is 31st Dec 2010, a decision making day. In the church, at the eleventh hour she received a call from him. He said “next year will be a good year for both of us. I want to see you.” She told her friends and said “see its worth waiting for this man that I love dearly.” The year ended with an answer from above.


Finally……………

After sometime I am able to write again.  It’s never been easy for her after much courage and encouragement from fellow friends motivating her to press on, move on and go on. Simply “Let GO and Let GOD”. It is not an ordinary journey.

In January 16 2011, both spoke again. It was a happy moment for both.  Instantly I give thanks to God. Their friendship grew to relationship. He introduces her to his mother in less than 3 months. His mom was praying for a woman like her to this family. I was shocked to hear. Seeing his mom’s tears she just embraced her, accepted her, took her hand and both prayed together. Lovely to see both prayed in unity. His mom told him that she is like her daughter. Many good memories happened that I am unable to express. Probably as her journey goes on I will let you all know.

He uttered he will never leave her. Always will be there for her no matter what happen. Will it be true or just a fantasy? I don’t know. For a first time in my life I saw her glowing face, like a princess who found her prince. He becomes so close to her; seriously never want to let her go. One point of time she fall ill, in a crossroad don’t know where to turn to. There he was, so grateful that he stood by her, wrap around his arms never wanting to let him go. She never took time to rest. In spite of her illness she took care of his mother and sister who came from abroad.  She gave priority to his family rather than herself. Their relationship grew stronger every second. She was also invited for Easter Celebration to meet with his entire family. Though she refused to go, he wanted her to follow him to celebrate Easter. So she went with a heavy heart because it’s not her custom. Did all she could for him, his family, friends and relatives. At the end of the day all that was paid with sadness, sorrows, regrets and tears. That very moment she knew, it is the biggest mistake in her life.

Damage done cannot be corrected. Soon after Easter his mother becomes cold towards her. A week later he was cold towards her. I don’t know what went wrong. He refused to explain even she demanded for an explanation. With much persuasion he said he needed time to check from God whether she is the right person for him. It sounded untrue to my ear. She is floating like a kite unsure whether to fly on or tumble down to earth. I keep asking why this family treats her this way. She was genuine on every act. She literally took care of his mom as her own. Why he is not seeing it.!

And finally she said…..“Where do I go when hope fades away? Where is my living God, I am unable to hear his voice no longer. Hands that were holding me, left me alone. What should I do? It’s like standing in an empty land where no sign of miracles or hopes to live on. My faith fades away day by day. I spread my prayers to all around the world yet no miracles took place. All gave me negative feedback. I broke down in my humble home. Where is my God that I worship and praise? Is God on my side or his side?                             

She took a deep breath and said “I am a Broken Angel”.

Many questions are unanswered till today.  The atmosphere around her so silent and quiet, even that moment I thought, Will God speak to her.?  But God was still keeping silent.

In my mind, all I can conclude is, he and his entire family rejected the one HE sent. Yet, I do not accept my own conclusion. Doubt plays in her mind, her heart like a knife on a grinder. She hope for a proper closure to free her from this torment.


 

 


Saturday, August 11, 2012

MY FERRARI MY FRIEND



I will never forget that one fine evening when I stood in front of my house with a troubled mind
... there he was.
There we stood,
we laughed
we shared jokes,
we exchange thoughts,
we went for a meal,
we had coffee,
Without even realizing the time pass so quickly,

Our friendship become stronger each day
with real hopes,
with real dreams,
and longing desires to be rich and famous.

We went the extra mile for each other. The affection we have is unbreakable by
those who see,
those who talk,
and those who care.

The fondest memories I will never forget where
he took care of me when I was sick without thinking twice,
he took time of for me from his priority,
he took effort to cook for me.

What is it that makes it possible to reach out to each other?
without it becoming unclean,
without any boundaries,
without being judgmental and
called my house his 2nd home
"No words could explain"

I can still remember times we argued about the existence of GOD
interesting,
eye opening,
an open honest conversation.

My hopes, my joy and my happiness are short-lived. He is drifting away from me everyday without realizing. It never crossed my mind that this day would come and rip everything in one glance.

I question myself what I did, what went wrong. I blame myself for being selfish and ignorant.
Questions keep running through my mind - is it because of
my color,
my race,
my religion,
and so on....... still no answers

Cause suddenly my whole friendship changed. I saw him at a distance, nervous as could be, without feelings,without gestures, nothing to show that he is able to express himself and towards me like before.
He who I put trust can no longer face me anymore and speak the truth.

Or is it the truth I am seeing in him.......